Our social calendar has been a whirlwind of activities the past couple of weeks. Play dates, family visiting from out of state, birthday parties…plus our weekly commitments which occupy two of our nights and two mornings. Every. Week.
Monday night as I tried to soothe my overtired baby to sleep, I realized I was not okay. If I continued at this pace, my family and myself would quickly reach a breaking point. I was reminded of the book, Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud. If you haven’t read that one yet, Mama, I highly encourage you to do so!
So, I am pressing pause.
Two days a week will be “at home” where I and the kiddos don’t have to rush to bring Daddy to work in the morning, jam pack our day to run errands and play with friends, and pick him up in the evening.
Yesterday was one of those days.
It wasn’t anything spectacular.
I didn’t cross many things off my to do list.
The day didn’t include tantrums.
It didn’t include a fancy home made dinner.
It did include pajama wearing most of the day and snuggle time on the couch while reading books.
It did include my son entertaining himself at different points during the day.
It did include my 8 month old taking a 2 hour nap.
It was more peaceful. More intentional. It was much needed.
What areas of your life do you need to press pause, Mama?